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Emotional Deposit… Simply Me

Ok I am focused Now… I have been under fire with family, school, life’s demands and I really wished I could just disappear. Have you ever felt like that? I wondered if I just vanished like the rapture how would life go on without me. I’m wondering about the people who depends on me so much and even my enemies will they find someone else to hate? ( chuckling) that doesn’t matter really. Just a random thought…Honestly. I have tried and tried again but my heart won’t let my passion for writing go. I just can’t seem to shake this writing fever. I love blogging, sharing my thoughts, sharing my life and most of all the feedback from my readers… You guys are the Best!  There is such a sense of freedom when the “Simply Me” comes out. I wear so many hats these days boy I tell you I am even confused on which one to put on when issues arise in my life. Should I be the Pastor, friend, sister, mother or just plain ole “ME.”?

So I have decided to be me and would like to re-introduce myself…Hi My name is Sakinah and I am a loving, outgoing, funny, caring, witty, ambitious, think on her feet go getter who wants to live life to its fullest potential. I realize that daily someone loses their life and we often hear the sad stories wpid-img_20140127_090635.jpgabout the person who has gone too soon. So I am here to stay and while I am here I will like for you to share my world. I  invite you into my daily discussions on just about anything that comes to mind food, church, life, leadership  you name it I’ll discuss it….Woo hoo I’m feeling free already. One of life’s biggest challenges is to be authentic, living a false life will have you bound to lies and fabricated fantasy that would be hard to make a reality. Take it from me I heard it all and seen it all, it is just not worth it. Learning how to express your true self will come with a boat load of honesty with first yourself and then with others. Let your flaws be know it will paint a better picture of you as you go through life challenges and struggles you are enduring as you right your wrongs. And remember NO One is Perfect!. We all deserve a second, third, forth, fifth chance at life to change, to be renewed and be regenerated in some areas in our lives so why not go for it?

I know life’s demands are jabbing at you to invoking you to make an emotional and crazy  response. So I say think about how you will respond to life, because it will respond back to you depending on your decision. How will you respond to the hand life deals you today? Life is sometimes a gamble, but you are the MVP of your life team. will you get fearful and fold? or will you try to ignore it? or pull your boot straps up and face your opponent in confidence knowing that life won’t always this way.  Hey, let me share this with you God is calling us ceaselessly through every circumstance of life? Through every attack and every battle and Yet He is measuring every spiritual attack that the enemy is allowed to wield against us. So let me drop this emotional deposit on you… God uses every attack to help you to identify areas of needed growth and healing.

In your quiet time today? ask the Holy Spirit to clarify those areas that needs growth and healing and Journal it.

please feel free to comment and share your thoughts…. Love Always Simply Sakinah….

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Secrets to Maintaining Your Brand!

Let’s get straight to the point. You must see yourself as a Brand. You must value your brand. Your highest priority is to market yourself, your abilities, and your knowledge as you would any product or service. Your brand is your reputation and it is perceived by those you have relationships with your colleagues, customers, clients, family and community. I can’t emphasize it enough that your most important product is YOURSELF!  Those who ignore this important truth will pay a high price both financially and professionally regardless of the profession.bigstockphoto_big_idea_brand_small

 

Remember that your success is not predicated on who you know, but who knows you and what they believe about you. I realize that there is a high priority on image. However, image is not everything, but your reputation and integrity is.

In a world with advancing technology of camera phones, social media and omnipresent surveillance like lightning it can shed light on a lie, a life scandal and illuminate exposure of behavioral misconduct that ultimately can destroy careers, companies, relationships and most of all your reputation.  It is important to always make a credible response when addressing issues.  There is a far greater price to pay when trying to correct inappropriate behavior.

For me lying definitely is not tolerated in my world.  In my professional opinion I believe when someone lies it can destroy an entire institution and industry because of the deceptive and fraudulent behavior of an individual. The unfolding drama demonstrated when searching for the truth in the midst of this epidemic of lies and deceit within the business world is just simply betrayal of public trust. I have to be honest my rationale is if someone lies to me once, they will lie again. With that being said I have perceived their brand and integrity is at the stage that is beyond repair.

gold BrandThe greatest thing to do for yourself is to do a daily measure of your level of integrity in the areas of your beliefs, conduct, habits and treatment of others. Give yourself a reality check and ask is my personal brand in tact or is in jeopardy due to my choices? Have I put my own ambitions, earning power and success at risk?  I encourage you today to change behaviors, habits and beliefs that are self-destructive, dishonest and illegal.

Finally, I reiterate your reputation is your responsibility and that is your greatest investment. Build your value with education, training, planning and efforts. Avidly protect your brand and the business of You.

 

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